Archive for February, 2008
26.02.08

Assault on the American Homeowner

Universe Of Real Estate

Sixty-nine percent of Americans are homeowners, and they are
under siege. A number of “unfriendly” policies, proposals and
court decisions within the past year have produced an atmosphere
which is arguably antithetical to the American dream of carving
out a slice of the apple pie and plopping a single family
residence on it.

The assault weapons have catchy titles, such as inclusionary
zoning, smart growth, density bonus incentives, eminent domain
and mortgage interest tax reform. It could be said that
corporations and developers attack from one side while
politicians and government officials, acting in the interest of
the less well-off, attack from the other.

In the tug-of-war between the “have a lots” and the “have a
littles,” the flag shifts back and forth in an effort to balance
interests, and those in the middle are swept along for the ride.

This argument is more than a refrain of “the gap between the
rich and the poor” tune as sung in Kevin Phillips’ Wealth and
Democracy
, Lester Thurow’s Fortune Favors the Bold or
Lawrence Mishel’s The State of Working America. The
“middle” encompasses more than the middle-class. Most homeowners
are at risk.

“Eminent domain” refers to the government’s right–with fair
compensation–to seize private property for public use, such as
when residences could be bulldozed to make room for much-needed
freeway. But in this “property assault era,” the U.S. Supreme
Court has ruled that the word “public” can be synonymous with
the word “private.” Do you remember what the definition of “is”
is?

Any private property that can produce greater tax revenues in
the hands of a more enterprising private property owner, such as
a corporation that plans to build a shopping mall or high rise,
could be plucked away for so-called public benefit. Attorney
Dana Berliner said of the ruling, “This is a dark day for
American homeowners.” An “attempted assault” emerged recently
from President Bush’s tax-reform panel, which proposed replacing
the mortgage interest deduction with a meager tax credit equal
to 15 percent of the homeowner’s mortgage interest. According to
Al Mansell of the National Association of Realtors, this could
translate into a 15% decline in home prices in some parts of the
country; and therefore, a significant loss of equity for
homeowners. Fortunately, Congress is not expected to countenance
the recommendation.

Because measures related to eminent domain and mortgage interest
tax deductions are criticized by a vocal majority, they are
unlikely to become permanent policy. However, inclusionary
zoning, smart growth and density bonus incentives are another
matter altogether.

“Smart growth” (SG) is supposed to be smart, but it can be
short-sighted. SG advocates generally promote taller structures
near mass transit lines, greater use of the existing
infrastructure, conversion of obsolete and distressed commercial
and industrial buildings into mixed-use properties and
preservation of the countryside from urban sprawl. While these
goals are noble and often sound, the impact of high density
building upon existing residents must be factored into the
equation.

“Smart growth” could be likened to a finely constructed ship.
Without fuel, a place to dock and an unobstructed sailing path,
the boat is useless. “Smart growth” proponents must consider the
capabilities of the existing infrastructure to fuel new growth;
they are often not upgraded to handle additional customers. They
must factor in the parking and traffic situation–especially
along mass transit lines which may already be congested–and the
current density figures for the target area. Los Angeles, for
example, is the densest city in the country with just over 7000
people per square mile. The plan which means smooth sailing in
Oklahoma City may stall in L.A.

Directives or incentives aimed at providing affordable housing
for low or moderate income residents are touched upon in most
“smart growth” plans, but they are integral to “below market
rate” (BMR) housing programs, such as inclusionary zoning and
density bonuses. BMR initiatives ignore market forces–such as
the law of supply and demand and the natural “trading up”
homeownership process–by requiring or incentivizing builders to
set aside a portion of their sale or rental units at below
market rates for those deemed unable to afford current prices.

In addition to density increases, government may permit BMR
developers to erect taller structures, skirt parking and open
space requirements and dot single family neighborhoods with
townhouses. Homeowners–from the “struggling” to the
affluent–may, in turn, feel assaulted by the resulting traffic
congestion, parking problems, loss of backyard privacy and
inferior quality of life on previously serene streets. It could
be likened to a cramped elevator; as passengers flood through
the doors, claustrophobia increases as well as a fear that the
community will exceed its capacity and plummet to its figurative
death.

BMR programs exist in at least 134 cities, towns and counties in
America, and in the following states: California, Colorado,
Illinois, Maryland, Massachusetts, New York, Vermont and
Wisconsin.

We cannot stop growth, but we must be intelligent about it.
Above all, we must not take homeowner assault with a grain of
salt.

25.02.08

Practicing English Abroad - Without Having to Pay!

Better Language

Whenever the advantages of earning an advanced degree in an English-speaking country are mentioned, “improving my English skills” and “practicing my English” always rank high among them. But, as the experience of many a foreign student has shown, practicing - let alone improving - your English is, as the English saying goes, “easier said than done.”

Understandably, many students studying abroad gravitate toward students from their own country or region, both for greater ease of conversation as well as to be with others who understand their cultural perspective. Valuable as such friendships are, they often get in the way of using English and refining the skills, speaking and listening in particular.

Furthermore, a lack of confidence inhibits many foreign students from putting themselves forward in English. Even when they have the confidence and willingness, students from other countries often do not know how - and where - to create situations outside the classroom in which they’re likely to learn English by using it. The following suggestions, some of them familiar and obvious, others more novel, come from clever students who have found ways to make the most of their time in the English-speaking world.

All of them agree that making as many native English-speaking friends as possible is the most helpful thing of all. That doesn’t necessarily mean living with native speakers, but if you can - in a dormitory or shared house, apartment or flat situation - you’re sure to get your English up to comfortable speaking, listening and general comprehension standards at the fastest rate, having the most fun in the process.

English-speaking students are as interested in making friends with people from other countries as you are in getting to know them. Many of them have not traveled extensively outside their home countries or continents - and are as aware as you are of the value of getting experience of the ways people from other cultures think and interact.

A good thing to avoid in making native-speaker friends is not to propose spending time together so that you can practice your English. Even though it is part of what you want from the interaction, it is only part, and it sounds less appealing to native speakers than simply asking to go out for coffee or some other appropriate means of getting to know someone. It sounds like there is work or effort involved on the part of the native speaker.

In fact, the people you approach with the idea of “practicing your English” are less like to decline your invitation because they are unwilling to be helpful than they are to feel that they are not “qualified” to teach and might have a negative rather than a positive influence on your English. The reality is that no matter how they speak English, they have something to teach you, since, as native speakers, they are examples of the kinds of English speakers you can expect to encounter in your later, professional or personal life.

Beyond making English-speaking friends and living with native speakers, here are some ways to consider expanding your English speaking and comprehension skills that take you into more formal, adult parts of the English-speaking world. In some of them, you may even learn vocabulary that will be useful for your academic discipline:

1. Go to the bank with a mission that involves fact-finding in English. As one example, it would be good for you to learn how have money wired from a foreign country - yours - into a bank account you establish in your host country. You may need it. If the branch of the bank near your university is a small one, you may just want to walk in and talk to an officer. If it is a larger bank, you may want to call ahead for an appointment to speak with someone. That would push you even farther into the trickier business of doing business - in this case simply making an appointment - in a second language over the telephone, which is one step more difficult than doing the same thing in person. You could even say that you are gathering the information for an article you are writing for your school’s foreign-student bulletin. Then you could actually write up what you learn and present the information to your fellow foreign students - even if there is no official foreign-student bulletin.

2. Go to the post office to find out how best to ship an item home. This will probably be a walk-in task, but you are likely to find postal clerks helpful if you look earnest about your need to know. Find out as many shipping options as possible, both to gather information you might really find useful but also to see how long you can sustain a conversation about a complex topic. Do not be shy about asking to have anything you are told repeated until you understand it completely. That will encourage the clerk to find other means - usually just different words - to answer your question. This is a highly important English skill: learning the different ways there are of saying basically the same thing.

3. Go to a fitness center or other facility that offers nonacademic activities you enjoy and ask about membership and privileges. Universities often have many of the facilities you need on campus. Still, you could also go off campus to investigate other kinds of activity centers - which could range from a stable that gives horse-riding lessons to an art studio. Even if you do not actually join - and do not feel pressured to; you are just investing possibilities (and expanding your English without saying so) - you are sure to enlarge your vocabulary and increase your sense of ease talking with strangers in English. They are there to provide a service or sell their product, so you can safely assume that they are already inclined to be as helpful as possible.

4. Go to a travel agent and plan a trip. The trip could be anything from an excursion in your host country - of which there are sure to be many - to a more adventurous trip to a neighboring country. Travel agents are, for obvious reasons, accustomed to dealing with people who do not speak English as a first language. Again, try to sustain the conversation as long as possible within reason. Ask about the full range of transportation and accommodation options, and see how many different recommendations the agent can make that fit with you time availability and budget. Do not feel under pressure to buy anything you do not actually want or are not prepared to do. It is normal for customers to leave a travel agent’s office with a variety of options to consider.

5. Apply for a part-time job. Even if you do not need to work part-time or cannot under the terms of your acceptance at your host university, check out nearby jobs. Inquiring about jobs is likely to introduce you to vocabulary you would encounter in no other way. Even better, if you present yourself well and make a strong, well-worded application, you could even be asked back for an interview. Interviewing is a highly valuable skill in countless situations, including academic ones, and getting all the experience you can with it will be invaluable. If you are so successful that you are actually offered the job, give yourself credit for a job already well done (fact-finding; interviewing) - and then accept the job if it actually appeals to you or politely decline it if you do not want or need it. If you were skillful enough to get one job offer, it is plausible that you got others, too. Thank the employer for the opportunity and reply that, regrettably, you have accepted another offer elsewhere.

The opportunities are limited only by the size of the community in which your university or school is located. The suggestions above are offered to give you ideas about how to use your imagination to create situations for you to expand and practice your English - without ever having to say, “Could you please help me practice my English?”

Hugh O’Connell is a business owner and university lecturer. He is a director of Plan-it Consultants Limited, Thailand and UniRoute Limited, Hong Kong. Plan-it provides off line resources to students wishing to study overseas: study abroad program. UniRoute offers online advice on study abroad.
He is also an active member and contributer to the Asian Forum on Business
Education AFBE. Currently Hugh resides in Thailand and is working towards his doctorate.

25.02.08

Be Careful That You Don’t Become A Slave To Your Home Business

Biz

Although the expressed reasons for wanting to work from home are
many and varied, most home based business owners cite the
ability to set their own hours as a major factor in their
decision to work at home. However, many people that have work at
home businesses often fall into a trap that flies directly in
the face of their stated desire for time flexibility.

The strong growth in home based business activity continues and,
according to the Small Business Administration’s Office of
Advocacy, fifty-two percent of ALL small businesses are
home-based.

Some home based business owners have been known to become
“workaholics” because their office is so accessible. Don’t
become a slave to your business…get out of your home office
regularly to renew and revitalize yourself.

Close the door to your office or otherwise remove yourself from
your designated “work area” and go into your “home” area to live
your personal life. If your business involves the use of the
telephone and you find it difficult to ignore a ringing phone in
the office, simply turn the ringer off and turn the volume on
the answering machine way down. If your business is internet
based, just turn off your computer (or at least get away from
the monitor and keyboard).

As a work at home business entrepreneur, you certainly aren’t
required to be available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week just
because your business is located in your home. After all, your
office or workspace is just an area in your home…its not your
home itself!

Working and living under the same roof has a host of advantages,
but it can present some challenges (in addition to the
workaholic syndrome mentioned, above) and stress factors.

Here are four ways to create a less stressful home business
environment:

-Remember why you wanted to become involved with a home-based
business (i.e. more time for family, work schedule flexibility,
etc.)

-Have discussions with your family members and get their input
about the working arrangements and the amount of time they want
with you.

-Use good time management techniques. Keep a list of tasks by
order of importance. There are many low cost and effective “day
planners” or “organizers” readily available today.

-ALWAYS take a little time to “smell the roses”.

While not experiencing the negatives common to a corporate
office working environment, the home-based business owner may
occasionally experience stresses and frustrations that are
unique to working at home. Networking with other home-based and
small business owners provides an opportunity to connect with
others who may be experiencing the same stresses/frustrations
that you are. Sharing stressful and/or frustrating issues with
someone else in the same situation can relieve your stress and
may bring you good advice from a different point of view.

As a final note, remember to observe Home-Based Business Week
each year (it is always the week of October that includes the
second Tuesday).

25.02.08

Super Employee Events Around the City of London: How to Arrange Them

Information Folder

Getting ready for a company event, the more so around the UK’s capital, might well be an involved and decision consuming process if your firm are not well organised, or don’t have the right resources to hand. From finding bar women, to guaranteeing workers are prepared to clear up the waste, hiring musicians, wine, it might well all extremely rapidly grow to be uncontrollable.

And it’s all about the firm’s folk. Just do not fail to remember that for one second. While using a pleasing waterfall of Verve Cliquot spilling from your firm’s corporate event entrance door might often be one’s idea of Employee event paradise, if you haven’t say cater to vegetarians then your company are most likely gonna be in a dilemma! Take care to make certain that every one of your personnel are comfortable, their particular requests are under control, and you could be well on the way to managing an exciting event. Always make certain folk plan, arrange and plan again.

Arranging is absolutely important to the smooth running of your corporate event and you can not possibly do too much here. Please make sure transport is thought of thus when the choice unfortunately comes to abscond the bash, your employees are not wondering around striving to pick up cabs to get home. Parties might well be a challenge if your firm are arranging an event for scores of personnel, subsequently it will be an idea to pick up a bit of assistance from skilled experts if your firm are unfamiliar with doing this type of thing!

Choose your firm’s function venue carefully. If most of your firm’s employees reside Around south of the capital, hiring a place Within the north of London may not be the greatest idea, even if it’s the most alluring Staff Parties party site Within the whole world. Do not always make things awkward for individuals when they do not have to be. Your business can locate lots of corporate party planners and suppliers with Hardens Company events.

In The Citu of London Hardens have an online directory of London caterers, mobile discos, fancy dress costume hire, cakes, you name it, you’ll be able to locate nearly any sort of Staff celebration service, helping the business’s corporate event go with a big bang! Hardens have fantastic resources for corporate events around London, so check them out here: http://www.hardens.com/party/.

25.02.08

The Cocktail Party

Cuisine

A cocktail party can be more daunting than a dinner party if you don’t remember the rules. However, it is a great way to kick back and relax with your friends. There is no need to have a theme or a special occasion.

The Key Factors:

  • Expect 60% of the number of people you invited.
  • Do not serve from the kitchen. Set up a bar.
  • Have someone (not you) tend bar. Ask a friend or hire a local bartender ($15-20/hr).
  • Multiply the number of guests times three for the number of glasses you need.
  • Use small plates and finger foods. This is not a dinner party.
  • A cocktail party should be two hours in length sometime between 6PM and 10PM.
  • The area in your home that you select should be cozy, but not overcrowded.
  • Keep furniture to a minimum. You want guests to stand and socialize, not sit in the corner.
  • In order to cut down on the number of bottles of alcohol you need, select a signature drink(s).
  • Don’t forget to have non-alcoholic beverages (again choose a small selection) for the designated drivers.

In honor of Spring and taking are cue from the spring fashion colors (turquoise, coral, green, raspberry), here are a few signature drink suggestions:

The Go Girls at ON THE GO 4 U are champagne drinkers so here are a few ways we suggest to change the champagne:

1. Add 2 dashes of Chambord or pomegranate juice to champagne.

2. Add 4 dashes of Blue Curacao to champagne.

3. Shake ice, a measure of Creme de Menthe and Irish Whiskey, strain into a champagne glass and top with champagne.

Not a champagne drinker? Try Smirnoff Ice with a touch of your favorite colored liquor and serve over ice.

Remember, we are thinking spring so why not try these combinations:

Bellinis are always fun. Mix it up a bit and use the same concept for a martini. Use 2 measures of your favorite vodka to 1/2 measure of Peach Schnapps and a touch of peach juice. Use the same preparation method as with any martini.

Margarita with a twist. Use equal parts tequila and pink grapefruit juice and 1/2 measure of Countreau.

Want something a little blue? Use equal parts of vodka, tequila and blue curacao. Stir with ice and fill the glass with lemonade.

And of course don’t forget, the classic mojito!

If you are going to experiment, make sure you test your recipe before the party. Whatever the signature drink, remember to drink responsibly and be a responsible host.

Must have books for party planning:

Every household that is going to have cocktail parties should have a decent bar manual or classic cocktail book.

The Last-Minute Party Girl by Erika Lenkert. This must have book contains party etiquette as well as quick recipes that are great for any cocktail party.

The Cooking Club Party Cookbook which is full of great party ideas and recipes.

How often should you have a cocktail party? Well, if your social schedule is busy and assuming that your friends are hosting events as well, we suggest having some kind of get together for each season as a relaxing time to catch up with the gang.

Indra Books - EzineArticles Expert Author

Indra A Books, author of this and many other lifestyle articles, is the owner and founder of ON THE GO 4 U, Personal Shoppers & Concierge Service in the Washington DC metropolitan area. The company’s creed is to provide its clients with the ultimate life management experience. In addition to its services, ON THE GO 4 U also publishes a monthly e-zine and conducts workshops on wardrobe, entertaining and decorating.

For more information about the author and ON THE GO 4 U, please visit http://www.onthego4u.net

© 2005 Indra A Books for ON THE GO 4 U

25.02.08

Who Should Consider Cosmetic Eyelid Surgery (Blepharoplasty)?

Beauty Within

Cosmetic eyelid surgery is right for many people, but it is not right for everyone. How does one know if blepharoplasty is right for them? A good candidate for blepharoplasty wants to restore a more youthful and rested appearance to their eyes. Droopy or baggy eyes communicate to others a sense of fatigue, disinterest, and senescence. Many people simply don’t want their face to express to others these qualities when they feel quite the opposite about themselves. The best candidate for cosmetic eyelid surgery wants their appearance to better communicate their feelings of youth, energy, and vitality.

Many people who are interested in cosmetic eyelid surgery tell Dr. Ebroon that they are interested in blepharoplasty but that they truly are not “vain.” They’re right! Most people are not looking at cosmetic eyelid surgery as a way to just look better. They realize that although cosmetic eyelid surgery does make the eyes look more beautiful, the appearance of the eyes conveys a deeper quality. The eyes express to those we know and meet something deeper about ourselves before we have a chance to communicate in other ways.

Once it is understood what makes a good candidate for cosmetic eyelid surgery, then it is easy to see who is not a good candidate. A poor candidate for cosmetic eyelid surgery is one who doesn’t truly feel energetic, vital, or interested and is hoping that the surgery will make them so. In other words, those who are hoping the eyelids can be brought into better harmony with who they are on the inside do very well with cosmetic eyelid surgery. However, those who hope the surgery will change who they are on the inside are not as good candidates.

Daniel Ebroon - EzineArticles Expert Author

Dr. Daniel Ebroon is an Ophthalmic Plastic Surgeon which means he specializes in plastic surgery of the eyelids. Cosmetic eyelid surgery (also called blepharoplasty) is cosmetic surgery that rejuvinates tired looking eyes. In addition to cosmetic eyelid surgery, Dr. Ebroon also performs reconstructive surgery of the eyelids, eye socket, and tear ducts for those patients suffering from diseases related to these areas. This includes patients with droopy eyelids, eyelid cancer, broken bones around the eyes, tearing disorders, thyroid eye disease (Grave’s disease), and other eyelid disorders.

To Learn more about Cosmetic Eyelid Surgery, please visit Dr. Ebroon’s websites at: http://www.ebroon.com and http://www.cosmetic-eyelid-surgery.com

25.02.08

Retreat to Advance

Management

Sometimes the most important and urgent thing we can do is get away to a peaceful and anointed spot.

This is one of the most powerful concepts that I personally have incorporated in my life. I’m sitting right now writing this book in a cabin up on a hill overlooking a beautiful lake, miles away from the nearest city.

As we choose to draw away for a time, we can see and hear much more clearly about how to go ahead. Jesus did this many times during His earthly life, especially just before and after major decisions. The Bible says, …in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength. (Is. 30:15)

There’s something invigorating and renewing about retreating to a quiet place of rest and peace. Silence is an environment in which great ideas are birthed.

It is important to associate intently and as often as possible with your loftiest dreams. In Isaiah 40:31 we read, “But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”

I believe that every person should have a place of refuge, one out of the normal scope of living, one where he can “retreat to advance” and “focus in.”

Make a regular appointment with yourself; it will be one of the most important you can ever have during the course of a week or a month. See how much clearer you move forward with God as a result.

- John L Mason, from the book An Enemy Called Average. Over 500,000 sold! (to find out more about this book, please go to http://www.freshword.com/resources)

John L. Mason - EzineArticles Expert Author

About the Author:

John Mason is a national best-selling author, nationally recognized speaker and book coach.
He has authored fourteen books including An Enemy Called Average, You’re Born An Original-Don’t Die A Copy, Let Go of Whatever Makes You Stop, and Know Your Limits-Then Ignore Them which have sold over 1.4 million copies and have been translated into twenty-five languages throughout the world.
“I have posted a special message for you to see on my website http://www.freshword.com In it I talk about right associations and the effect they can have on whether you succeed in life or not. Your best friends should bring out the best in you! If you are an author, or want to be, I have many resources specifically designed for you. Also, make sure to sign up for my “Nugget of the Week - I would love to inspire you.”

24.02.08

How to Condition Curly Hair

Gender Issues

Taking care of your curly hair can be a challenge if you don’t
know what products and tools work best with this hair type. It
is essential to understand curly hair so that it’s easy for you
to manage and looks good.

Here Are Some Curly Hair Conditioning Tips: STEPS:

  • Give your curls a hot oil treatment every 2-3 weeks to add
    moisture to the hair.
  • It is especially necessary to do
    this during the colder months where hair can become dry and
    brittle. It’s also important during warm months when swimming
    and chlorine can wreck havok on curls. It’s best to counter it
    with a hot oil treatment.
  • The heat opens up the inner
    cortex and penetrates the hair shaft. You can find this at your
    local drug store. A good hot oil treatment is Alberto VO5 Hot
    oil treatment. Each tube is 14 ml. It claims that if used
    regularly, it will lead to 55% stronger hair.
  • TIPS:

  • Trim the hair every 6-8 weeks to get rid of
    stringy ends and keep the hair looking tapered.
  • Use
    diluted essential oils on the hair for added manageability and
    shine.
  • Warnings: If you are using essential oils,
    always remember to dilute them first before using them on any
    part of your body - whether hair or skin.

    Remember, curly hair is a blessing not a curse. If you know the
    tiny changes you can make to your daily styling routine, it
    makes things so much easier. There will be little or no bad hair
    days ahead and you’ll look that much more fabulous and feel that
    much better about your curls.

    Confidence is always an essential ingredient to looking
    good!

    24.02.08

    How to Use Movies to Get Out of A Rut

    Beauty Within

    Does the routine of daily living feel recently more like a torture than a familiar ritual? Do you find yourself going through the motions day in and day out as you go to work, come home, have dinner with your family and go to sleep before you wake up to the same thing all over again? Do you feel like Phil Conors in “Groundhog Day”, faced with the same old thing every morning, day after day after day? The same spouse, the same job, the same look, the same…whatever? Do you sometimes feel like you are in a coma like Lester Burnham in “American Beauty”? Or perhaps, are you so bored with your marriage that you speak to the walls, like Shirley in “Shirley Valentine”? Does your work feel so unmotivating that you daydream about having a wild adventure with a celebrity, like Justine Last in “The Good Girl”?

    If you answer yes to any of the above questions, then you are in a rut. In other words, you’ve fallen into a life pattern that no longer gives you meaning, purpose or fulfillment. Day in and day out, you repeat a routine out of habit, again and again and again, secretly wishing it would change and hoping that it would magically disappear or go away.

    The truth is that it’s not the rut that is in your life. It’s you who is in the rut. So, instead of wishing that the rut will go away, it’s time you got out of the rut. If you need inspiration, watch the movies I recommend here. Watch how the central characters transformed their lives and follow their examples. You have only one life to live. Make sure you live it fully.

    How to Get out of “The Marriage Rut”

    Watch: “Shirley Valentine” and “Shall We Dance?” and put to practice these lessons:

    1. Stop expecting your spouse to change at your ratetake responsibility for your own change.

    2. Find a healthy interest and pursue it. It will make you feel 100% better.

    3. Don’t blame yourself–or your spouse–if he/she doesn’t want to follow your path of change. Love him/her anyway. Remember what you have accomplished together all these years.

    4. Pursuing a healthy interest will give you joy and self-confidence. Your mate will notice and feel attracted to you all over again.

    How to Get out of “The Work Rut”

    Watch: “Working Girl”, “Office Space”, “Educating Rita”, “9 to 5″, “Norma Ray”, “Beauty Shop”, and put to practice these lessons:

    1. Stop expecting your work to give you meaning and become exciting for you–it’s your responsibility to create meaning in your job.

    2. Find a new work-related interest and educate yourself on it: take a class, learn a new skill, study something that will improve your chances for a promotion.

    3. Become an expert in something: write a book, create a training manual, design a course, come up with an idea for a new project.

    4. Start a part-time business that interests you.

    5. Take a night course.

    6. Network with people who love their jobs and ask one to be your mentor.

    7. Volunteer for a worthy cause.

    How to Get out of “The Family Rut”

    Watch: “American Beauty”, “A Good Girl”, “The Secret Lives of Dentists”, “The Ice Storm”, “Life as A House”. Notice the main characters’ efforts to break out of a family ruttheir mistakes can teach you valuable lessons. For inspiration, watch “Mrs. Doubtfire”–learn how a desperate dad saves his relationship with his kids after his divorce from their mother.

    Put to practice these lessons:

    1. If you want your family life to stop being monotonous, you have to model change to your family.

    2. Find a new, healthy hobby.

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR

    Maria Grace, Ph.D., is an expert at teaching people how to learn lessons from popular movies to find the job, home, relationship, and healthy body and mind they want. She is a Fulbright scholar, licensed psychotherapist, sought-after public speaker and coach, and the author of “Reel Fulfillment: A 12-Step Plan for Transforming Your Life through Movies” (McGraw-Hill, 2005). “Reel Fulfillment” was praised by Publisher’s Weekly as one of the top “self help books out of the self-help box” for 2005-2006.

    For more information visit http://www.mariagrace.com and http://www.reelfulfillment.com

    24.02.08

    Help! I Need New Baby Gifts

    Kiddie Stuff

    Need some ideas for that extra special gift for a new baby, this article is for you. It will present some excellent ideas to help in your search to find them.

    The best and most convenient place to start your search for new baby gifts is online. By looking for baby gifts online through websites your going to save yourself a trip to the mall, all the wandering around you will most likely do, the drive there and back and of course more importantly, a great deal of money no doubt.

    Now the first thing that probably comes to your mind when thinking about a baby gift is clothing, if so.. you’re in luck. There are many websites that have simply wonderful clothing for newborn babies. Another benefit by searching and buying baby clothing online is being able to find things which you will not see in most department stores. The clothing tends to come in a greater range of sizes and styles. There are complete outfits, seasonal outfits, jammies, sweaters, tights, shoes, frilly dresses and so much more. Shopping for baby clothes has never been more fun.

    Another great and unique baby gift idea is music. You might not have thought of this as a gift for a new baby, but there are some truly great CD’s, music videos and DVD’s to choose from. You can find traditional children’s music, lullabies, silly fun songs or perhaps Sunday school music.

    The gifts that you buy for a new baby can also be functional. Diapers, bathing lotions, shampoos, blankets and accessories for the nursery are always appreciated by the parents as really helpful and thoughtful new baby gifts.

    If you have that little bit extra to spend then the most unique baby gift is a homemade gift basket. They are a joy to make, a joy to give and a joy to receive. Use some of the ideas already mentioned to fill your basket. You could also add a scrap-book, some picture frames or some cuddly toys.

    Most of all enjoy and have fun selecting new baby gifts online. The thought that you put in now will be very much appreciated by that special little someone. Make it easy on yourself and find these new baby gifts without leaving home. It’s not hard to do when you shop online!

    Craig Thornburrow is an Author and Business Owner. Find all you need to know about Baby Gifts at http://www.FunkyBabyGifts.com

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